Overcoming
New Hampshire’s Drinking Culture: Why You Should Stop Drinking and What You Can
Do Instead
Have you ever felt like you needed to drink
to have fun? How many times have you found yourself drinking more than you
should have because friends around you were drinking? Have you ever drunk alcohol
because, frankly, you were bored and had nothing else to do? According to ‘24/7
Wall Street’, New Hampshire has the highest per capita alcohol consumption of
all 50 United States. Translation: people in the Granite State drink a whole
lot of alcohol, and just because it is legal when over the age of twenty one,
it does not mean it is healthy or a good choice.
How Bad Can Alcohol Really Be… I Mean, It’s Legal Right?
Damage to the Brain-Alcohol consumption can cause blackouts, poor judgment, slowed reflexes,
distorted vision, a loss of coordination, memory lapses.
Personality Changes- Drinking can lead
to risky behaviors, such as driving when you shouldn’t, or having unprotected
sex.
Cancer- Alcohol
consumption is associated with a higher risk of many different Cancers, whether
long or short term.
Hangovers- Is it really
worth the headaches, fatigue, nausea, muscle aches, mood disturbances and
blood-shot eyes?
Waste of Money- Ever
paid for an alcoholic drink at a bar or restaurant. No further explanation
needed.
Dependence-
While some individuals are at a higher risk of Alcohol Dependence, any
individual could potentially become an Alcoholic.
Empty Calories- There are no nutritional
benefits of alcoholic drinks and a standard beer, glass of wine or shot of
liquor contains about 150 calories.
Death- Each
year, individuals from all social classes, age groups and of both genders die
from binge drinking (alcohol poisoning).
What Can I Do Besides Drink?
· Rethink Your Friend Group- It is Friday night and it has been a long week. You are looking to let off some steam and get together with friends. You call up Sally, text Bill, email George. They are all headed to the bar and know they will be buying rounds until they can no longer state their own name, but you are trying to refrain from too much drinking because you know that Alcoholism runs in your family and hate to spend your Saturday with an excruciating headache. You certainly do not want to spend the night alone at home, no matter how much you love your cat. So what is the solution?When you were a kid, your parents told you to choose your friends wisely. Guess what? That still applies as an adult. In order to live a healthy lifestyle which is not centered around polluting your liver and damaging your sense of reasoning, choose friends who do not center their lives around alcohol. The people you meet when you are at the bar who describe themselves as “regulars” are more than likely not the individuals you want to add to your immediate friends circle.
· Get More Active- Research shows that people who live active lifestyles are both healthier and happier than those who do not. The trick is finding active activities that you enjoy and will actually engage it without it feeling like a chore. Depending on what appeals to you, you can try joining a gym, swimming, going for a long walk, bike riding, kayaking, skateboarding, motorcycle riding, or dancing.
· Get Creative- Engaging in creative activities is incredibly therapeutic for the human brain. Depending on your interests, you may try; taking a class on languages or art, learning to play an instrument, making a meal from scratch, developing your own recipe and cooking it for friends or family, painting a picture, re-painting a room in your home, scrapbooking, writing or look up DIY projects on Pinterest that interest you.
Other ideas:
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Visit a zoo or museum, (there are many in New Hampshire and
Massachusetts which are reasonably priced and both interesting and educational)
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See a movie
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Get some coffee at your favorite coffee shop
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Attend a play at a local high school
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Walk around the mall
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Read a book
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Play a board-game with family or friends, (You could even organize a
“Board-game Party” where friends and family bring their favorite games to play
and eat a Pot Luck Dinner)
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Plant a flower or tree
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Volunteer at a local food bank or shelter
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Write a letter to a far away relative
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Organize your photos
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Call an old friend
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Organize a baseball or volleyball game with friends or co-workers
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Clean out a closet at home
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Take a bath
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Look through old yearbooks
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Study the history of your town
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Visit the Humane Society
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Go to the library
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Have a picnic
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Plan your dream vacation
I Am Suffering from Addiction to Alcohol and/or Other Drugs! Where Can I Turn?
Self-Empowerment NH, LLC specializes in working with families suffering from substance abuse issues and has supported a number of individuals whom suffer from even the most severe of addictions. Through both individual counseling and family counseling; Selfempnh is here to serve as an empathetic, confidential and non-judgmental support system.
For more information about counseling and group services and/or presentations regarding Substance Abuse in Youth and in the Workplace, please contact Lori Magoon, MLADC, LCMHC at (603)470-6937 or selfempowermentnh@gmail.com.
You are not
alone. Open the door to self-empowerment.
Open the door to a better tomorrow.
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